Announcement

Collapse
No announcement yet.

General Relationship Thread

Collapse
X
 
  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts

  • General Relationship Thread

    Foostar suggested it, and its a pretty good idea.

    Any needed advice so we can all share expieriances



    (sorry if this has been done, but an updated version is always good)
    Peter Petrelli is my hero







    maybememories6@hotmail.com

    1.2mm Monroe
    1.6mm Septum
    3.4mm Lobe
    1.6mm Tongue
    3 Microdermals
    1.2mm Daith
    1.2mm Conch

  • #2
    Yay!

    *dance*

    I've been with my fiancé for 3 and a half years - got engaged after 6 months but always planned to have a long engagement. Had a LOT of ups and downs, but it's always been worth it
    Face: Labret, medusa, septum, double nostrils, bridge.
    Ears: 8 lobes, 2 auricles, conch, tragus, 2 helixes, daith.
    Body: Nipples.


    I am Katie. I like earl grey tea, marshmallows in hot chocolate, poetry and Care Bears.


    disco-lemonade@live.com
    ^ add me please



    Comment


    • #3
      Originally posted by Foostar View Post
      Yay!

      *dance*

      I've been with my fiancé for 3 and a half years - got engaged after 6 months but always planned to have a long engagement. Had a LOT of ups and downs, but it's always been worth it


      Thats really sweet The ups always beat the downs, congratulations! (sp?)
      Peter Petrelli is my hero







      maybememories6@hotmail.com

      1.2mm Monroe
      1.6mm Septum
      3.4mm Lobe
      1.6mm Tongue
      3 Microdermals
      1.2mm Daith
      1.2mm Conch

      Comment


      • #4
        I won't lie - it's been bloomin' hard at times. Relationships are far from easy, no matter what anyone says. They need constant work and adaption. I have a horrible habit of taking him for granted :(
        Last edited by Foostar; 03-19-2008, 11:06 PM.
        Face: Labret, medusa, septum, double nostrils, bridge.
        Ears: 8 lobes, 2 auricles, conch, tragus, 2 helixes, daith.
        Body: Nipples.


        I am Katie. I like earl grey tea, marshmallows in hot chocolate, poetry and Care Bears.


        disco-lemonade@live.com
        ^ add me please



        Comment


        • #5
          You can only expect to reap what you sow. I can't impart much more wisdom than that :P
          Queen C aka Cazaclysmic

          “I contend we are both atheists, I just believe in one fewer god than you do. When you understand why you dismiss all the other possible gods, you will understand why I dismiss yours.” -Stephen Roberts

          Comment


          • #6
            I'm going through a divorce, and feeling kinda bitter about relationships in general....I think I'm just going to avoid them altogether in favour of something more *ahem* casual That way you're not going to get hurt. Easy peasy!

            And Foo...I always find there are ups and downs, but as long as the ups are good enough to make it worthwhile then it's ok. It's when they aren't, or aren't so frequent...that's when you have a problem.

            Comment


            • #7
              definitely agree Caz, i think if somethings bothering you you need to sort it out, talk things over so it doesnt just spring up one day and make a future argument worse, always talk things over.

              i love my boyfriend, been with him for almost a year and a half and i never imagined id have what i have with him and i love him so much, i know i wanna be with him forever and ive never had that feeling with anyone before. although only being 18 i know my feelings could change but i know thats how i feel now the thought of committing to him fully is a lovely one for me
              Saz
              Piercings:


              2 sets of lobes at 1.2 and 1 set of 2.4mm on both ears

              right ear: + 1 Helix at 1.2mm, Conch

              left ear: + 2x Helix and Daith

              nose


              Planned: Some more ear stuff and hopefully a microdermal or two once I know where I want to put them!


              Spikey is my BJS Wife

              Don't be dumb, avoid the gun!

              Comment


              • #8
                tbh I can't talk. I'm a wreck atm but that's what I tell myself.
                Queen C aka Cazaclysmic

                “I contend we are both atheists, I just believe in one fewer god than you do. When you understand why you dismiss all the other possible gods, you will understand why I dismiss yours.” -Stephen Roberts

                Comment


                • #9
                  Originally posted by .Only.Streetlights. View Post
                  tbh I can't talk. I'm a wreck atm but that's what I tell myself.
                  :( *hug*
                  Saz
                  Piercings:


                  2 sets of lobes at 1.2 and 1 set of 2.4mm on both ears

                  right ear: + 1 Helix at 1.2mm, Conch

                  left ear: + 2x Helix and Daith

                  nose


                  Planned: Some more ear stuff and hopefully a microdermal or two once I know where I want to put them!


                  Spikey is my BJS Wife

                  Don't be dumb, avoid the gun!

                  Comment


                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Cinnamon_Spider View Post
                    I'm going through a divorce, and feeling kinda bitter about relationships in general....I think I'm just going to avoid them altogether in favour of something more *ahem* casual That way you're not going to get hurt. Easy peasy!

                    .

                    But, theres always the risk of the casual thing becomeing an attachment, even if its the other person thats attached to you, then feelings can get hurt
                    Peter Petrelli is my hero







                    maybememories6@hotmail.com

                    1.2mm Monroe
                    1.6mm Septum
                    3.4mm Lobe
                    1.6mm Tongue
                    3 Microdermals
                    1.2mm Daith
                    1.2mm Conch

                    Comment


                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Laura - Marie View Post
                      But, theres always the risk of the casual thing becomeing an attachment, even if its the other person thats attached to you, then feelings can get hurt
                      Very true, I suppose you just need to be clear from the outset...not always that easy though.

                      That sucks Caz....I do the same, tell people what they should be doing but don't actually act on my own suggestions myself.

                      Comment


                      • #12
                        talk things over so it doesnt just spring up one day and make a future argument worse, always talk things over.
                        That was a hard lesson for me to learn... we nearly split up because we didn't talk enough. I'd mull over something for months, then it'd all come out suddenly and we'd fall out hugely.
                        Face: Labret, medusa, septum, double nostrils, bridge.
                        Ears: 8 lobes, 2 auricles, conch, tragus, 2 helixes, daith.
                        Body: Nipples.


                        I am Katie. I like earl grey tea, marshmallows in hot chocolate, poetry and Care Bears.


                        disco-lemonade@live.com
                        ^ add me please



                        Comment


                        • #13
                          Giving advice is much easier than following it
                          Peter Petrelli is my hero







                          maybememories6@hotmail.com

                          1.2mm Monroe
                          1.6mm Septum
                          3.4mm Lobe
                          1.6mm Tongue
                          3 Microdermals
                          1.2mm Daith
                          1.2mm Conch

                          Comment


                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Cinnamon_Spider View Post
                            Very true, I suppose you just need to be clear from the outset...not always that easy though.

                            That sucks Caz....I do the same, tell people what they should be doing but don't actually act on my own suggestions myself.

                            I tell myself that everyone's like that! But I am making a concerted effort from now on to be a bit less preachy and a bit more focussed. I think it'll last until I wake up tomorrow morning and go back to my everyday drudgery. :P
                            Queen C aka Cazaclysmic

                            “I contend we are both atheists, I just believe in one fewer god than you do. When you understand why you dismiss all the other possible gods, you will understand why I dismiss yours.” -Stephen Roberts

                            Comment


                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Foostar View Post
                              That was a hard lesson for me to learn... we nearly split up because we didn't talk enough. I'd mull over something for months, then it'd all come out suddenly and we'd fall out hugely.
                              yup it always sucks when that happens if anythings bothering me now that includes my boyfriend i tell him and talk it out and we're better off for it
                              Saz
                              Piercings:


                              2 sets of lobes at 1.2 and 1 set of 2.4mm on both ears

                              right ear: + 1 Helix at 1.2mm, Conch

                              left ear: + 2x Helix and Daith

                              nose


                              Planned: Some more ear stuff and hopefully a microdermal or two once I know where I want to put them!


                              Spikey is my BJS Wife

                              Don't be dumb, avoid the gun!

                              Comment

                              Working...
                              X